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Act Like A Lady, Think Like A Man
When bee-ing a reader you must not waste your time on lousy books. In case you are curious about the hype, and #1 position on the best sellers list, I have read "Act Like A Lady, Think Like A Man" for you. While guiding you to the good stuff, I will also warn you of what is not so good. But first let me tell you why. The following letter was sent to the author, and I received no reply from Mr. Harvey. Gee, I hope he's not busy writing a second book...cause I'm really not that into him.

"Dear Steve Harvey,
The male need to “fix” problems is a demonstration of ego, not a caring act of love.
It rolls like: Watch me get your problems out of the way like a super hero, because I’ve got to hurry back to my needs, my business, and my cookie reward(sex). Men who have to show me they can fix things often make promises they cannot shore up, leaving me to figure it out anyway, adding to the disappointment of not getting what I needed in the first place - compassion. My problem becomes eclipsed by the man’s need to succeed. How about the gift of listening and a reminder, “Baby, it’s gonna work out, don’t worry.” Where’s my big shoulder?
Support, Loyalty, and the Cookie, the three most important things to a man, play out in your book like Sex, Money, and Power - the lowest vibrations of human energy. Women have adjusted to the simple, base drives of men, but when are men going to seek the heart, throat, and higher consciousness toward Love, Communication, and Spirituality?
Put ASIDE the PRIDE, and go INSIDE!
You mention faith and attending church, and suggest women not lower themselves by having affairs with married men, lessening men’s opportunities for weakness. Can’t men pray for strength? Doesn't the committment of marriage involve mutual support, loyalty and intimacy? Seems a simple lesson to learn that you have to take responsibility for your decisions despite temptations. Religion never taught me that my ego would make me a miserable person. Have you read “A New Earth” by Eckhart Tolle?
Wanting to be “chosen” by a man is another scheme of the ego to secure worthiness. Skip the ring and envied price tag, I want something more valuable, priceless, and everlasting. Choosier women have evolved to provide, support, and bake, our own cookies. I do expect more from men, and I will continue happily on my own until I find one who owns the responsibility of being a good man. Love me for who I am, not how I make you feel.
I sincerely hope you will read “A New Earth” and consider the ideas I shared with you."

-Cherrie Hanson, Queen Bee